Happy Halloween from The Savoy

Had an amazing Halloween Eve party at the Savoy Jazz Club last night.  :)  The amazing decorations were compliments of the ever-fabulous Cataplexia Numbers, who subsequently DJed a great set.  Stop by tonight, or whenever!  Great club, great folks and some say..great music! 

http://slurl.com/secondlife/Marco%20Island/207/65/22
  

Happy Haunting!!


XOXO,
B

Looking For Love in All the..Virtual Places..?

So, I've recently gone on a campain to hold singles mixers at the Savoy Jazz Club.  But in order for me to understand what would lure a single person into the Savoy, I needed to know what the single scene actually was like.  I was single in SL for maybe all of 3 months, and that was two years ago. 

So, I searched up Singles.  What I found, actually really surprised me.  SL is a a hub for...dating services.  I wandered a few to see how things were run and what the candidates looked like.  Something that struck me as odd..was that a lot of the avis there were very new to SL.  Maybe two to three months old. 

So that leaves me to ask...is SL not any fun without a partner? 

So, I IMed one of the avis hanging around the dating service and asked him why he was there.  Why didn't he hit places like Phat Cats or Franks for loving?

His answer was simple..and actually made a lot of sense.  He said..

"Not everyone at those places is interested in anything more than dancing."

So..where do you go when you're looking for love?

I've honestly never had to look for love in SL.  It kinda always..happened.  Even when I didn't want it.  

How far would you go in SL to find love?



XOXO,
B

Dinner..

Quinoa and scallops.  :)  My secret?  Four different kinds of freshly cracked black pepper.

Enjoy!

Going Home..

I had a long conversation with a very old friend last night about relationships.

See, a long time ago, I made a statement that stuck with her. 

No matter how far I wander, or where my SLife may take me, I always find my way back home. 

Home being the one place that you always belonged - never felt like a stranger..never needed to explain yourself..just the place where you could be you. 

I still stand behind that statement - that we all have a place that is home; whether it is romantic or a clique..we know where we are happiest.

For me, Mr. Moo was always home.  Even when we ended our romantic relationhip, we were still friends.  Still neighbors.  Still there.  When I was down, sad or bored..he was always there for me, and vice versa.  He was my SL home.

So now..take stock of those in your life.  Where do you feel like your home truly is?


XOXO,
B

Fashion Bloggers..

Is it wrong that I feel all teary eyed because my two favorite fashion bloggers that were a couple..broke up..and now have different fashion blogs?

Breaks my heart.  :( 

I loved their joint blogging. 



B

2 Years and Counting..

How do I explain Cisqo? 

Well......he's my favorite Colbie Caillat love songs made real.  He's sweet, funny and so hot.  He makes me feel so..happy that I can't find the words to describe it. 

He's the guy that met me..and wanted to introduce me to his friends and landlord and make me a part of his world without question or hesitation. 

He's the guy that when I hesitated and stepped back from relationships, he sat patiently and waited for me.  We used to joke that I lived on the corner of Mistrust Lane and Suspicion Blvd.  And he was sitting on my porch steps waiting for me to let him in.

But I did.  And I'm not sorry.

He's been the most drama free romance I've had in Second Life.  A two year drama free record?  Hello?  That's unheard of. 

:)  I dunno..what do you say?  Two more years?

I dedicate this super sappy song to him. 

XOXO
B

Some Wife..

Dead on the floor..and she just keeps eating her popcorn.

That's some love there....

Same Old Story..

If you read this blog, I'd hope that you've learned a few things about me.   The most important thing is that I firmly believe that you have to live for today.  Your entire life can change in a single second - for better OR worse.

So here's what I want you to consider:

1.  Forgive your enemies.  What does carrying around the hatred do for you anyway?
2.  Remember good times.  Trips down memory lane always warm the heart.
3.  Tell the people in your life what they mean to you.  Dole out those 'I love you' statements.  How would you feel if you never had the chance to say it again?
4.  Be true to you.  Don't be who other people want you to be.  Be who you love being.  Don't be afraid of what people will think, or how they may perceive you.  Just let all of that GO and be who you are.

Happy Sunday!


XOXO,
B